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35 Amazing Uses for Borax

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If you’re like me, you grew up with a box of 20 Mule Team Borax above your washer and dryer. Well I still have a box in my laundry closet. But Borax is so much more than a laundry booster!

The amazing use for Borax - it isn't just for laundry.

What is Borax?

Borax, sometimes known as sodium borate, is a compound, a mineral and a salt of boric acid. Powdered Borax is white, consisting of white and colorless crystals that dissolve in water. Does Borax contain boron? Yes, it does!

Along with vinegar and baking soda, Borax is quite versatile. These household items abolish the need to purchase tons of cleaning supplies and clear up plenty of storage space in your cabinets. Just one four-pound box of borax can be used to clean most things around your house! The amount of storage space you will have left will make it easier to store more important things such as food, cooking appliances, dishes and more. Check out these 35 awesome uses for Borax below!

35 Amazing Uses for Borax

First things first, you can make my fantastic Homemade Laundry Detergent with Borax. This easy to make recipe is safe for HE machines too! It smells great and will save you a TON of money over name brands in the store.

Ok, let’s get back to the many fantastic uses for Borax in and around your home.

What are some uses of the household cleaner, borax?

There are so many uses for Borax – in your kitchen, bathroom, bedroom and more! Borax packs some cleaning power!

  1. Insect Killer
    During the summer, cockroaches are most likely to be seen around and in your home. Did you know you can take care of these little pests with Borax? It can also take care of other bugs such as ants, fleas and bedbugs. Simply sprinkle the Borax in the affected areas and it should give you clear and quick results.
  2. Rat Repellent
    At the first sighting of rats or rat droppings, sprinkle Borax in pathways and it will scare them off. DenGarden.com gives you tips on making a rodent poison with Borax.
  3. Fun For Kids
    Create slime, bouncy balls, fake snowflakes and more using borax! Check out this fun Slime Project from Family Fun Crafts.
  4. Maintain Flowers
    Did you know you can use Borax to preserve fresh-cut flowers?
    See OurPastimes.com for How to Preserve Flowers With Borax.
  5. Plant Fertilizer
    Caution, using Borax in large amounts will kill plants. However, the proper amount will increase the soil’s boran, a mineral essential for cell wall growth. This works best if your soil is boron deficient.
  6. Weed Killer
    Take care of annoying weeds by sprinkling borax on them. Be careful because borax can kill certain types of plants, make sure you are diligent in where you put it, as well as avoid using it on days where the weather could impact where the Borax stays.
  7. Clean Your Patio Furniture
    Mix borax with 1 teaspoon dish detergent and use a sponge to soak it onto patio furniture. It should be sparkling clean after!
  8. Window Washer
    Use Borax to wash your windows! Mix 3 cups of warm water with 2 tablespoons of Borax and use a washcloth to apply. Best if you use a vinegar solution to rinse.
  9. Fire Extinguisher
    It is well-known that baking soda or salt can put out a fire. But did you know that Borax has the same effect? Small fires such as campfires or grease fires work best with this trick.
  10. Mattress Cleaner
    Cleaning your mattress can be really simple using Borax! Borax can remove stains and get rid of any stench (like urine) that could be sticking to the fabric. Dampen the soiled area, lightly sprinkle with your Borax, scrub area in a circular motion with a damp sponge; allow it to dry for 30 minute and then vacuum the area.
    Can borax kill bed bugs? Well I’ve never tried it personally but check out PestKilled.com for more information on Borax for Bed Bugs.
  11. Fabric Deodorizer
    Mix Borax with water and apply using a spray bottle. Similar to Febreze, this mixture can be used on almost any fabric. To make mix 1/4 cup borax into 16 ounces of warm water in a clean spray bottle. BONUS you can add 10 – 12 drops of your favorite essential oil for an all natural scent.
  12. Carpet Deodorizer
    Not only can this mixture deodorize fabrics, it can also work on carpets! Having pets means occasional or even frequent accidents. Borax can help balance out the odors in your carpet. After applying, vacuum to clean it up.
  13. Tile and Hardwood Floor Cleaner
    In addition to carpets, Borax can also be used as a floor cleaner. It is safe to use on both tile and wood floors. Mix borax with vinegar and water to create this mixture to mop your floor with.
    I do suggest trying a small test area first!
  14. Removing Floor Stains
    For hard stains that just won’t come out, Borax will remove both hard floor and carpet stains.
  15. Tub and Sink Cleaner
    Borax is a great and easy way to clean your tub and bathroom or kitchen sinks. Similar to another powder-base cleaner such as Ajax, scrub it and rinse thoroughly.
  16. Toilet Cleaner
    One of my favorite uses for Borax is keeping my toilet sparkling! Scoop some borax into your toilet and allow it to soak overnight. Then clean it as you normally would. Great way to clean for sparkling clean results!
  17. Cleaning Hair Tools
    Hair tools like brushes and combs need to be cleaned often. Using a combination of Borax and dish soup can be an easy routine way of getting the job done.
  18. Washing Dishes
    Mix borax, soap and water and stir for a homemade dish soap. Great for pots and pans too.
  19. Cast Iron Pan Cleaner
    You should never use soap on any cast iron cookware because your food may end up tasting like soap! Instead, try using a mixture of borax and salt for a super clean result!
    Check out my CAST IRON GINGERBREAD RECIPE!
  20. Residue Cleaner
    Remove gum, grease or other sticky and hard to get rid of substances using Borax! Combine a 1/2 cup Borax with a 1/4 cup of warm water. Rub this mixture onto the sticky residue and it will clean off in a jiff!
  21. Cleaning Countertops
    Your kitchen and bathroom countertops and sinks can be cleaned with borax and vinegar! Put into a spray bottle similar to other cleaning supplies.
  22. Clean Out Your Fridge
    Borax can be used to clean the outside of the fridge, but it also can be used to remove stains from food or drinks on the inside.
  23. Mold and Mildew
    Borax can remove the stains or stench that can come from mold and mildew! Make a spray or paste depending on the area you are cleaning
  24. Removing Rust
    Rust can be extremely hard to remove off surfaces! But using borax can successfully remove it. Just allow it to sit on and soak for awhile before rinsing off.
  25. Unclogging Agent for Toilets
    More bathroom uses for Borax! It can unclog toilets! Use it with boiling water and let it sit. Then flush and repeat if needed.
  26. Unclogging Agent for Drains
    Just a half cup of Borax can be used for unclogging drains in showers or sinks as well.
  27. Trash Can Deodorizer
    Trash cans can start to smell after awhile, even after taking the trash out. Letting it soak in water and Borax can help the stench!
  28. Litter Box Deodorizer
    If you’re a cat person, you are bound to have a little box! Use Borax to help neutralize the smell.
  29. Laundry Stains
    Hard to remove stains in laundry can be frustrating, but using borax can remove the stain simply by scrubbing it and washing as usual.
  30. Instrument Cleaner
    Musicians can clean their instrument strings using borax. Just make sure the Borax doesn’t come in contact with the body of the instrument!
  31. Grow Fruit Trees
    Sprinkle roughly a cup of borax onto any full-sized fruit tree every 4 years. Similar to plants or flowers, it adds mineral boron to the soil in fruit trees, allowing good cell wall growth.
  32. Car Upholstery
    This is a homemade cleaning solution using borax that is affordable and easy! Best way to remove dirt and grime from car floor mats.
  33. Sanitize Garbage Disposal
    If there’s a strange smell coming from the kitchen but you can’t seem to figure out where it is coming from, it is most likely your garbage disposal. Using borax and warm water will sanitize and neutralize the scent.
  34. Restore Yellowed Pillows
    Overtime, bedroom pillows can tend to take on a yellow tint from your body’s natural oils. Using Borax is a simple way to re-whiten and brighten up your pillows again!
  35. Blacksmith Flux
    My son-in-law is a welder and he gave me this tip!
    Welders use borax as flux during forge welding to keep surfaces from oxidizing, which would create a low-quality weld. Simple flux is used from Borax and is sometimes mixed with additional powdered fillings.

Well there you have, 35 fantastic ways you can use Borax. I know this isn’t an exhaustive list. How have YOU used Borax in and around your home?

How to Start Selling Your Crafts on Etsy

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Are you a crafter?  Whether you craft your art because you love it, or you do it to gift these crafts to friends and family, you have probably wondered whether or not you could start selling your crafts on a larger scale and making some real money.  Guess what? You can! You can sell on Etsy and believe it or not, learning how to start selling your crafts on Etsy is simple!

Start Selling Your Crafts on Etsy

What is Etsy?

Etsy is an online marketplace for independent creators, crafters, and artists to sell their handmade products. Etsy sellers can sell their handmade artwork, crafts, jewelry, clothing, collectibles, decor pieces, and vintage items.  It is a unique shopping space in an overcrowded online shopping world. This is because unlike the large shopping sites on the web, Etsy’s purpose is to help independent creators and micro-businesses flourish in selling their items.

Why sell on Etsy?

As if those reasons weren’t compelling enough, Etsy is an easy place to begin for those that are thinking about selling their crafts.  Better yet, unlike renting a space at a vendor fair, opening a brick and mortar store, or even starting your own online store, it doesn’t cost a thing to create a store on Etsy!  This doesn’t mean that it will always be the best option for selling your crafts though, so you need to be sure you are aware of the pros and cons before jumping in.

What sells on Etsy?

Many people enjoy selling and buying homemade crafts. Here are a few ideas to get you started

Pros and Cons to Selling on Etsy

To help you make this decision, I have decided to create a short Etsy pros and cons list for you to help you in trying to figure out how to start selling your crafts on Etsy:

PROS

  • Easy to start
  • Free to begin
  • Easy for those that don’t know how to build a website
  • Easy to get a feel for the sales success of your product

CONS

  • You want the customer interaction aspect of selling your product
  • You create large items that are cost prohibitive to ship
  • You want to create a brand (you CAN create a brand even with Etsy, but the strong branding isn’t the same when selling through Etsy)

If you are feeling good about this pros and cons list, then you are probably ready to find out how to start selling your crafts on Etsy. 

Steps to Selling on Etsy

First Step – Choose Your Product

Start Small and Build Slowly!

Now you may already know what you are good at creating; but first and foremost, you need to decide what you are going to sell.  Even if you are great at many things, I highly recommend starting with just one or two items so that you don’t become overwhelmed.

Second Step – Choose Your Shop Name

Memorable, but simple, is key!

Try to come up with a catchy name that will be easy for people to remember the next time they visit Etsy to shop for handmade items. Your shop name is different than your account name, and you can have several different shops under each account (reminder for later when you are ready to expand your creations list).

Third Step – Set up Your Shop

Now you’re ready to get your Etsy shop set up!

Setting up shop

Head to Etsy and click on “Sell on Etsy” and then “Shop Preferences” and from there you will enter your personal information, your shop name and info.  You will then be ready to input your items for sale!

Fourth Step – Listing Your Items

Now it is time to sell on Etsy!!!

Listing your Item on Etsy

  • It is free to create a shop, but it does cost $0.20 to list an item on Etsy, so be prepared for this expense. Additionally, there are more fees once an item sells, this is a percentage fee based on the sales amount.
  • Post great, high quality photos, using natural light (no flash photography). Etsy recommends uploading GIF, JPG, OR PNG files that are at least 570 pixels wide.
  • Create catchy, memorable product names and descriptions that will be easy for shoppers to read.
  • Put the item in the correct categories and use the correct tags.  This will help shoppers find your products.
  • Fill in all required fields and be as descriptive as possible.
  • Prepare your shipping preferences.  The postal office offers free postage scales for use by customers, but you may consider getting your own postage scale to help calculate postage costs.

Once you have gone through the sale process, posting the next item will be much easier!

Etsy has a great app available for sellers so that you can sell from anywhere.  There is also a thorough help section where you can find answers to many questions that you may have when creating your Etsy shop.   

More Tips to Selling on Etsy

CBD Oil For Beginners

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CBD oil is a hot topic these days. The one thing that the internet is known for is its love of trends. We love to learn about the latest in fashion, child rearing, and house decoration. We scour blogs, and Youtube and Pinterest to absorb all of the information and incorporate it into our lives. More than we love any trend though, we love health trends. Anything that will help us concentrate, be in less pain and lose weight has our full attention. We are always on the lookout for the next big thing, whether it be a weight loss tea, essential oil or a supplement. With that said, let me introduce you to the next big thing: CBD oil. It is becoming more and more popular and has some health benefits you won’t want to ignore.  Here is your guide to CBD oil for beginners.

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CBD Oil For Beginners

What Is CBD Oil?

When it comes to CBD oil, for beginners, you must become familiar with some new vocabulary. First, CBD stands for cannabidiol oil. This is a substance found in cannabis products along with its more familiar substance, THC. Unlike THC, the chemical properties in CBD products do not produce the high that you are accustomed to associating with cannabis products. That opens the use of CBD products up to people who are otherwise unable to try cannabis because the use of THC isn’t safe for them. CBD products come in many of the same forms we customarily see other cannabis products in, such as a liquid that can be vaped, a liquid that can be used sublingually (under the tongue), creams and lotions, and baked into edible products. This gives you a wide variety of ways to experience CBD for the first time.

Is CBD Oil legal to use?

In the majority of states, CBD use is legal. As always, you want to check the particular rules of your state to determine if the use of CBD s legal for you. The lack of THC, which is the psychoactive ingredient in marijuana means that you don’t get high, making it an easier sell for lawmakers who are concerned about people abusing cannabis. That legality means you can purchase CBD without going through the process of approval for a medical marijuana card if your state has such a program available.

What does CBD Oil Do? Is it a scam?

There is still research being conducted to teach us more about how CBD oil works and what it can do for our long term, but here is the quick and dirty version. In your body, there is a system called the endocannabinoid system that helps to regulate systems in your body that control things like pain, or digestive issues, or anxiety. That system uses cannabinoids to improve function. High stress and illness can deplete those cannabinoid stores, and that is when issues with our bodies can begin. The use of CBD products restores the cannabinoids and seems to offer people relief from those issues. Anyone wanting to use CBD for a specific medical condition should make check with their physician.

What are the effects and health benefits of CBD Oil?

If you’re just learning about CBD oil for beginners, you might not know the wide range of symptoms that CBD can help to relieve. There are many ailments that CBD can cover, some that may surprise you. For instance, CBD is helpful if you suffer from the symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, or depression. It can also help with nausea from cancer treatment. Speaking of nausea, there are many people who use CBD to help with the pain and irritation of many digestive disorders. If you suffer from chronic pain, CBD can help to fight the inflammation that may be at the root of your pain.

What do I do next?

For starters, find out if it is legal in your state (click here for more information on the legalities of CBD per state). If you have a chronic condition that you’d like to try using CBD oil as treatment, you’ll want to consult your physician. Not all doctors are familiar so be prepared to bring in your own research! One of the most important things you should know when it comes to CBD oil for beginners is that you have to be concerned about quality. No two products are alike. Learn how to access the qualities and properties you need in a CBD product and proceed forward. You’re going to do great.

Recommended CBD Oil Products

When in comes to CBD oils and products, not all are created equal. I did a lot of research before deciding on Joy Organics, which I highly recommend.

Free Self-Care Ideas

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Free self-care? Seems pretty basic, but the modern world will tell you that you have to spend a ton of money, go away or at least go to a spa to enjoy the benefits of a little self-care. But I have 7 free and simple ideas for self-care on a budget; and you can start them right now!

I’ve included a few of my favorite quotes on taking care of yourself throughout the article too.

What is self-care?

Self-care is an extremely popular topic right now, as people learn the importance of taking care of themselves in mind, body, and spirit. This is a chance to reduce stress my friends, and we all need that. The first thing you need to know is that “self-care” is very personal and will look different for each person. For many self-care means an expensive trip to the spa or a weekend retreat. But, self-care can be completely free little things that make a big difference. So if you’re on a tight budget or the foo-foo spas aren’t your cup of tea, I have you covered. Here are a few ideas for self-care without spending money.

Free Self-Care Ideas on a Budget

“Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.”
– Unknown

Take a Bubble Bath

Most of us have loved bubble baths since our childhood; but we rarely make time for them anymore. But a simple warm bubble bath is practically free and can whisk away your worries for a time. First, make sure the kids and the pets are all busy, or if you can manage it, out of the house. Then draw yourself a bath and add your favorite bubbles for a relaxing time (or as long as the bubble last and the water stays warm). I recommend budgeting for some quality organic bubble bath, if you can. If you don’t have any bubbles, a bit of shampoo will work too. Consider lighting a candle, putting on some relaxing music, or reading a good book (consider a bath tray to hold your books, etc). Another option, if you want to spend a little bit is to add a bath bomb or make your own sugar scrub. If you’re feeling under the weather add some Epsom salts to the bath for a little pick me up.

Take a Walk

Taking a walk is the perfect free self-care; and it is totally free. It might seem a little strange but the mind gets tired of seeing the same scenery all the time the same way you get tired of eating the same thing. Getting a change of scenery, even for as little as 15 minutes can do wonders for your mental fatigue. Taking a walk somewhere new not only gives your brain new stimulus it also gives you the opportunity to get fresh air and, if it’s sunny you’ll get some much-needed vitamin D. All of these will help boost your mood and melt your stress away. I recommend you take that walk in a local park or in the woods, somewhere away from the sounds of the modern world; a walk where you can enjoy the pure nature. Remember, take plenty of water with you, especially in the warmer months.

“When the well’s dry, we know the worth of water.”
– Benjamin Franklin

Pray, Meditate and Try Yoga with a Youtube Video

You don’t have to go on an expensive retreat or spend a ton on a yoga class to get the amazing stress-relieving benefits of prayer, meditation and yoga. These days you can find it completely free on Youtube. That’s right; you don’t even have to leave your house to give it a try! You may have to do a bit of searching to find the video and creator that best fits your needs and desires, but with thousands of videos available it won’t be hard to find a video that vibes.

“An empty lantern provides no light.
Self-care is the fuel that allows your light to shine brightly.”
– Unknown

Invite Your Best Friend Over

When was the last time you sat around the living room with your bestie chatting or contemplating the universe? Brew a pot of coffee, set the tea kettle on or pour a glass of wine, if that’s your thing; enjoy a mug or a glass with your favorite friend. Is your friend not local? How about calling a friend? Set aside some time to give them a call; make sure they have time to chat first. I have found that setting some time aside to catch up with your best friend does amazing things for your heart and mind.

Alternative? If you don’t have a best friend, consider a close family member.

Unplug from Electronics

I love social media but computers, phones, tablets and TV shouldn’t be invading every hour of our day! Even if you can’t step away for hours, for some fresh air; you can step away from the electronics. Turn off your cell phone / tablet, step away from social media, and unplug. You’ll find your stress levels go down and you won’t feel like you’re in such a rush anymore. Plus there won’t be any “keeping up with the Jones’” to do.

Do Some Gardening

Finally, I couldn’t talk about self-care without at least mentioning gardening; a personal favorite! What’s the say? Gardening is cheaper than therapy, and you get tomatoes.  With a garden, you get all the benefits of being outdoors plus so much more. Studies have shown that gardening can decrease depression and anxiety, teach mindfulness, while also boosting your mood! It also gets your body moving in new and interesting ways. Even if your garden is just a few pots in your window sill, taking care of your garden means taking care of yourself.

Make a List

One of the ways I self-care is to write a list of blessings. This helps me to focus on all the good things going on in my life, instead of the stresses. You just need a pen a paper (or use a word program on your computer). I like to play some happy music during this time too. Some will go as far as creating a gratitude journal; something to do if you have this mental exercise rewarding. Spending time and energy on the good things in your life help you regain a positive outlook without costing you anything financially. It is definitely worth the time and energy.

Alternatively you can try writing in a journal. Many find the daily practice of journal writing very therapeutic. There are even FREE journaling apps.

Self-care isn’t selfish! Take time out each day for a little free self-care with these ideas. And don’t be afraid to take time away when your budget and schedule allows for it. And, hey, if your budget allows for a weekend trip to the spa…go for it!

And hey, guys, self-care isn’t just for the ladies!

How do you take care of yourself? Leave your homemade self care ideas in the comments.

Love yourself enough to set boundaries.
Your time and energy are precious.
You get to choose how you use it.
You teach people how to treat you by deciding
what you will and won’t accept.”
– Anna Taylor

DIY Mother’s Day Gifts

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DIY Mother’s Day gifts can be a great way to show mom you love her; with a gift you make yourself. Remember back to your early years when you’d make a macaroni necklace or homemade card for your mom for Mother’s Day? Well these DIY gifts are just a step up from those, with all the love still mixed in. As a mom, I believe your mom (wife, sister, friend) will love these gifts.

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What is Mother’s Day?

In the United States, Mother’s Days was first celebrated in 1908. The holiday was founded by a woman named Anna Jarivs, who simply wanted a way to honor her mother. It wasn’t until 1914 that it became an official US holiday. Sadly, Anna felt that the holiday she established was over commercialized and fought against its celebration later in her life. You can see more about the history of Mother’s Day and Anna Jarvis here.

What are traditional Mother’s Day Gifts?

Traditionally gifts like flowers, candy and homemade cards were given to moms on Mother’s Day. But in the last few decades it has become a booming industry with some outrageous and outlandish gifts; far beyond most budgets. But if your budget allows for something big and expensive – go for it!

Finding a gift or gifts that your mom will love is the key, not how much money you spend.

What if I don’t have any money to buy or make a gift for Mother’s Day?

How to make Mother’s Day special for my mom? First do you know your mom’s love language? Meaning, how does your mom feel love and appreciated. Some moms love gifts, others would appreciate a full day or a few hours of your time to chat, while others would feel fantastic if you completed a job for them (acts of service).

20 FREE or Inexpensive Gifts for Mother’s Day

  1. Wash her car inside and out.
  2. Organize a family photo – it doesn’t have to be professional.
  3. Clean out her garage.
  4. Give her a neck and shoulder massage.
  5. Do the dishes, if you still live at home or any chore.
  6. Cook her favorite meal.
  7. Help her in the garden / yard with weeds, planting, lawn care, etc.
  8. Write her a letter with your favorite memory of you two.
  9. Clean her baseboards, windows or another task that doesn’t get done regularly.
  10. Make a photo album of your favorite pictures over the years. You can even do that digitally!

For ideas see: The Care and Keeping of Mothers

What DIY gifts could I make my mom for Mothers’day?

I have a few easy ideas for DIY or homemade Mother’s Day gifts. I hope you find one your mom will love!

Make Mom Some Homemade Spa Items

You can make your mom a custom soap with scents she loves. You don’t have to be an expert crafter either.

Melt & Pour Soap
You can make these to suit your mom with her favorite scents, like lavender!
Shampoo Bars
Shampoo bars are great gifts for traveling and camping moms!

Or try you hand at making her some lotions or salves.

Gardener’s Hand Balm
If your mom is a gardener make sure to check out: Gardening Gifts for Mother’s Day
Honey Whipped Hand Cream
This nourishing hand cream is a perfect DIY gift for Mother’s Day.
Calendula Salve
This healing salve is made with calendula oil, you can make that for mom too!

Other Bath, Body and Spa Type Gifts.

Coffee Sugar Scrub
Package in a cute mason jar and ribbon and it will be very well received!
Bug Repellent Lotion Bars
Great for an outdoor loving mom!

DIY Mother’s Day Gift for the Home

Here are some wonderful gifts you can make for your mom’s home.

How to Make Candles
Several different types of candle you can DIY for mom!
No Sew Fleece Blanket
Fancy fleece blanket – if you can tie a knot, you can make this.
Twine Covered Planters
Does your mom love to grow plants? These DIY containers can be used indoors or out.

DIY Treats for Mom

Chai Latte Mix
If your mom loves tea you can make up this delicious mix and present it in a cute mug or mason jar
Homemade Vanilla Extract
A great easy DIY for the mom who bakes!

More Ideas for Simple DIY Mother’s Day Gifts

Need more ideas for making gifts for you mom this Mother’s Day? These sites have some fantastic ideas, great for younger kiddos too.

Last Second DIY Gifts for Mom
25 Easy Mother’s Day Crafts for Kids
Adorable Mother’s Day Crafts
50 Homemade Gifts for Mom on Mother’s Day

Gift Guides for Mother’s Day

DIY Wrapping for Mother’s Day

Cute DIY ways to wrap and present your gifts.

15 Wrapping Paper Alternatives The Prairie Homestead shares 15 wrapping alternatives.

30 Unique Gift Wrapping Ideas Country Living has 30 great ways to wrap your gifts!

Reusable Gift Bags Brown Thumb Mama has a tutorial for reusable gift bags.

Magazine Gift Bags Little Blog on the Homestead shares how to use magazines as gift bags.

I hope these ideas help you make a gift or gifts for your favorite moms! Tell me in the comments what you’re making for your mom or moms in your life.